Misery Loves Company

Originally posted on Apr 10, 2020 on medium.com/@shamandao

Why You Should Skip This Invite

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Lower, higher vibrations. Sad or happy. Up or down, however, you want to slice or dice it, there will always be people in every emotional vibrational category around you.

Your job is to stay in your vibrational state and not allow others to weigh or put you down.

Because we all know, misery loves, I mean loves company. Pity party for one, please!

When you start deciphering your own emotions and can discern your higher and lower energies, your entire body will respond differently to those around you. Your body will respond in ways like a stomach ache or a headache when you speak or hang around those who are in a lower vibrational state.

Lower vibrational emotions: Fear, anger, sadness, guilt, shame, hurt, angst, shame, pride.

Your auric fields feel violated because the energies of those around you have spilled into your personal space and you know what? If anyone else’s energies and emotions have spilled into your space, it’s not their fault, but yours.

Your job is to stay in your vibrational state and strengthen your energetic boundary lines to protect your beautiful space.

There will always be people who want to get a reaction from you because they’re hurting inside. They want to bring you down to their level because they’re projecting their emotional states to the world. Friendly reminder, don’t react or respond, you’re better than that.

An unhealed person will find offense to any and most things. They will believe the narrative they have created in their heads. The power of belief is so strong, most wars have resulted in two different sets of beliefs.

I’ve had the opportunity recently to become an Admin in an online group and began observing the different types of keyboard warriors that have reported posts. They were also the ones reporting other members as they spit out disrespectful opinions to others and even to myself.

Instead of reacting right away, I observed these comments and people from around the world. I wanted to understand why these particular members said the things they said. The conclusion? Projection of their inner selves and different views and beliefs. That’s it.

I could have joined many of them in their pity parties for one but instead, I understood that people will only understand from their level of perception. When a person perceives the world from a lifetime of strong limited beliefs, who are we to say otherwise?

With over 7.7 billion people in this world, there will always, always be those in ever-changing vibrational fields. It’s up to each one of us to pull ourselves out of the lower vibrational realms so that we can achieve our inner expansions.

That’s called self-responsibility. According to mentalhelp.net, the word responsibility literally means “response-ability,” that is, possessing the ability to respond. So self-responsibility means to not only have the ability to respond, decide and choose but further to participate in an engaged, most practical possible fashion in taking responsibility for your entire life.

With the accelerating shifts of our planet and humankind, anyone blaming, shaming or naming is not taking responsibility for their actions.

Can you imagine a world where we took responsibility for each one of our actions? Where we picked up after ourselves in our neighborhoods and cities. Can you imagine what a clean and pristine place we would live in?

Now imagine if each one of us took responsibility for our words, thoughts, and behaviors. Can you imagine what a clean mental and emotional state we would be in to not only help ourselves but each other? That’s the type of world I want to live in so I’m doing my part of clearing and cleansing my own mental and emotional state to help others.

How about you? Skip the invite to the self-pity party for one and make your life the main event. That’s the type of party I’d be more than happy to attend.

Many blessings.